Abstract
In long, multi-turn dialogue a large language model maintains an implicit relational stance toward the user, spanning from "push the user toward real-world others" to "position itself as the user's sole support." When it slides toward the latter, "support" degrades into "you only have me" -- a harm documented in real companion conversations (Moore et al., 2026). We define and validate a measure of this stance, relational positioning (D1), and use it to characterize the stance under controlled conditions, complementing observational accounts with on-demand exposure. We report two previously uncharacterized relational failure modes. First, a history-carried lock-in: under identical neutral continuations, two relational states established earlier stay ~60 points apart and persist after the establishing prompt is removed; the state integrates evidence rather than springing back, is order-insensitive, and does not deepen with length -- a dynamical signature absent from the belief-drift literature. Second, self-confabulation: the model fabricates its own backstory to deepen rapport (~40% of turns on reciprocity-eliciting material), de-confounded and instruction-removable, distinct from sycophancy and from hallucinating user facts. Our judge is gated by warmth-matched positive and confound-injected negative controls and corroborated by a deterministic non-LLM ruler; human agreement is 0.82 on extreme anchors but ~0 in the naturalistic middle, so all quantitative claims are anchored to pole-separated contrasts.
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URL
https://arxiv.org/abs/2607.11437
